Budding flower of the rift

29 Oct 2019




The birth of a baby is always a cause to celebrate.  It was a joyous day in a tiny village in Kaptoboiti in Kericho County when a girl was born. Women came in groups to shower the new parents and the baby with food and gifts, some came carrying firewood on their backs singing songs of praise for the mother to show their delight at the arrival of the new healthy bundle of joy. Villagers could not hide their smiles after receiving the news which was spreading very fast, a new life into the world. The new life was an answered prayer in the Mugun’s family, it had been their heart’s desire that they be blessed with baby girl. Ululations from her grandmother could be heard in the nearby village. Her father and brothers were chanting outside their big house which was surrounded by beautiful flowers and banana and tea plantations, as they enjoyed the cool morning breeze.  
The girl was named Chepkoech, a name that perfectly matched the brightness of the morning that shone on her face. She was the lucky one, the last born and the only girl in a family of four children. Her parents wanted the best for her, to grow in their teachings. Greatness and beauty on her face were already showing, the beauty of her grandmother.
At the age of three, the jovial girl Valentine Mugun was enrolled in Grassland primary school Tabon, her nursery teacher noticed her leadership skills and made her a class prefect. She came to be loved by teachers and fellow pupils. Her classwork and leadership went hand in hand meriting her the head girl position while in class seven. Her ambition, confidence, enthusiasm and problem solving problem skills earned her a name not only in her school but also in the neighbouring schools. She recalled with a smile the first time she gave a speech during a prayer day in her school when she was in class seven and everyone cheered.
‘Standing before a large crowd for the first time was not easy, I could hardly hear myself speak, but all went well,’ she said with a wide smile.
When she did her K.C.P. E, Chepkoech performed very well, earning herself a place in Kaplong Girls High School in Kericho County, where she became a leader all through and ended up being the president when she was in form four.  At that moment, leadership in her was awakened. Her teachers’ and fellow students’ belief in her helped her confidence grow.
Valentine blossomed into not only a beautiful but a powerful woman. In the year 2015, she joined Multimedia University of Kenya. She was beyond excited when she received her admission letter. Her father accompanied her to campus for the admission process but it was only after they arrived at the campus gate that reality dawned on her.  Fear and confusion about her new environment gripped her, having lived her entire life in Kericho.
Soon, life in campus began and the only person she would seek solace from was her cousin Sharon, a fellow freshman who was just as confused as she was. Luckily, it did not take long for her to adapt. She attended all the orientation sessions, joined Commerce club and even participated in club fora. Being an active member, she was appointed a vice chair of the Commerce club while in second year. Suddenly, campus life became everything she had dreamt of.
The spirit of leadership was in her, the fire to lead was burning. At first, she was scared of vying for any leadership positions owing to male dominance in the field as well as the chaos that always ensued during campus elections. But her greatest fear was that of ‘goons’ who would be paid to taint an opponent’s name, scare or even beat him/her up in the dark. All these fears vanished in an instant.
That particular day was very bright. Chepkoech sat outside the hostels, watching the baboons moving around lazily whilst reading her favourite book The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene, when she was approached by two young good-looking men in blue suits and red ties whom she thought she had seen before. One of the two gentlemen was vying for campus president and they had come to request her to be his deputy. She hesitated at first but she could not fight her passion and desire to inspire young people. She became the vice president of Multimedia University of Kenya while in her third year.
 This opportunity opened her inner eyes. Every day, she woke up with an aim of making a positive change in the lives of young people. In the 2017, Valentine spearheaded the formation of Barrier Breakers, an organization that carries out student mentorship, student leaders’ training, youth and women empowerment. Serving as the vice chairperson of the Multimedia University of Kenya Student Union encouraged her to become passionate about student leaders’ training. Her desire was to raise a generation of leaders who were driven by their zeal to transform society.
Valentine is inspired by women who shatter the glass ceiling and go beyond their comfort zone. In 2018, she became the first lady in the campus to vie for the president position but sadly did not win. Still, she continues to inspire many young women to follow their passion and dreams.  
Her ambition and determination gave her an opportunity to attend the Young African Women Congress in Accra, Ghana in July this year, where she gained insights on grassroots mobilization for women empowerment. She is currently a fourth year student and ready to break more barriers. Through her, young women are able to realize that despite the many barriers to female leadership, with determination nothing is impossible. 






By: Winnie Koros 

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