Tips for ladies on love and relationships

1. You don't need to make yourself a slave to a man because you want him to marry you; washing his boxers, cooking for him and cleaning his house are good, but do them for the sake of love and not because you want him to marry you. Doing all those chores will not stop him from dumping you. Only do it after marriage.

2. Do not be desperate to marry. It will make you marry the wrong person. Take your time to choose wisely.

3. When you fall in love, do not use your heart alone. Use your brain as well. Follow your heart but please carry your brains too.

4. Your body is for your husband only; it is not for the general public. Stop having sex with anybody that comes your way because you are searching for a husband. Sex is not a good criterion for searching for a life partner.

5. Control your anger; don't be hot tempered if you want to have a happy married life.

6. Having many boyfriends does not make you a big big girl; it only makes you a public bitch.

7. You don't need to expose your boobs or dress half naked to get the attention of men. Just be natural. Dress normal; the right man will locate you.

8. Do not try to use pregnancy to tie down a man. Guys are wise now. That method does not work again. He will deny the pregnancy and dump you if he doesn't love you.

9. Try not to play too hard to get to all guys; you may miss your right partner.

10. Trust in God. The sky will be your starting point.